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It isn't that you have no place in the story. It's that the place is so specific it's sometimes hard to recognize it as your own.
At some point you traded risk for security and convinced yourself it was the right call. But something in you still misses the risk.
You often confuse the conflict God actually asked you to face with the one you're just avoiding. The difference isn't always obvious.